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What do you say instead of “just checking in”?

InsightGuidanceAI amplification

Insight

Send something useful: a relevant article with two sentences of your take, a thank-you for a past introduction, an offer to connect two people, or a resource. Ask for a meeting only after you have given a reason they would want it. Do not ask for a job in that note.

Guidance

  1. Pick one action: thank, share a take, recommend, introduce, or share a resource.
  2. Make it specific to them (their work, not a mass blast).
  3. Keep it under half a page. One ask at most, and not “any jobs?”

AI amplification

Optional. Copy this into ChatGPT or a similar tool if you want a first draft. Replace the [PASTE] sections with your own material. The work stays in that tool; we do not save it here.

Prompt to copy

Rules: Do not invent employers, job titles, dates, metrics, team sizes, or outcomes. If something is missing, ask me or write [unknown]. Keep hedges such as "approximately" and "more than" exactly as I stated them. Never turn a qualitative result into a number.

Draft a short note that is not “just checking in.” Use one of: thank / share a 5–8 sentence take on something I paste / introduce two people / share a resource. Do not ask for a job. Use only facts I provide.

Who they are and what they care about:
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The useful thing (link or fact):
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Action I want:
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